I was recently reminded of a powerful formula originally taught by Dr. Robert Resnick many years ago, which emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for our lives regardless of what happens to us.
Here’s what it is: E + R = O (Event + Response = Outcome)
We can’t always control what happens, but we can control our response, which leads to a certain outcome.
If our response is poor, we can make a bad situation worse.
If our response is positive, we can turn a bad situation into a positive experience.
Playing the blame game is a poor response because it assumes others have all the power in the situation.
Taking responsibility for our responses allows us to live an empowered life.
No matter the situation, you can always control your thoughts and actions.
Unfortunately, bad things happen in life. Fortunately, we can control our responses to and make something positive come from them.
At a minimum, we can learn from situations, which is a positive response that leads to the outcome of personal growth.
I’m not saying this is easy, but it is possible when we approach things with the right mindset.
The next time something negative happens to you, carefully choose your response so your outcome can be positive.
Don’t play the blame game. Instead, take ownership of your thoughts and actions so you can turn negative events into positive outcomes.
Until next time, make today GREAT!
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