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What’s Your Legacy?

Last week I received news that my beloved babysitter from my childhood passed away at 93 years old.

“Miss Pat” was a faithful subscriber to my weekly emails and would occasionally reply to me and tell me how things were going in her world.

It was always great to hear from her as she played an integral part in my life during my preschool years and our family has stayed connected to her all these years later.

While it’s sad to know she’s gone from this earth, I’m grateful that I got to know her throughout my life.

It makes me think about my legacy.

What will others say when I’m gone?

What am I doing today that will leave a positive lasting impression on others?

Pat loved hundreds of children and their families as they passed through her childcare center, which was actually her home.

She always had a smile on her face and loved to laugh and encourage others.

She was a faithful servant in her church and a matriarch for her family.

She will be missed but certainly not forgotten.

What about you?

What legacy are you building today?

What do you want people to say and remember about you when your time is up on earth?

While we can’t control others’ thoughts about us, we can certainly live in a way that influences them to remember us long after we’re gone.

We’re all standing on the shoulders of family, friends, and leaders who have gone before us.

Everyone leaves a legacy of some kind.

Few are intentional about what they want to leave behind.

Let’s be part of the few who live with intentionality to love and lead those around us well so our lives count for something significant long after we’re gone.

Let’s honor those like Pat who have made such a difference in our lives by living in a way that builds upon the foundation they built.

Until next time, make today GREAT!

Whenever you’re ready, here are two ways I can help you:

  1. The Way to Greatness book – Discover the five continual choices that lead to The GREAT Life and how to implement them immediately.
  2. The GREAT Life Bootcamp video course – In this self-paced course, I’ll guide you to learn how to experience the life you were created to live by improving your faith, relationships, mindset, stewardship, and time management. (Enter coupon code “MM50” at checkout to receive a subscriber-only 50% discount!)

How’s Your Vision?

When kids are growing up, it’s common to ask them what they want to be someday?

Their answers are often amazing.

They don’t put a limit on their dreams and worry about what’s “realistic.”

Instead, they think of what they’d love to do without limitation.

Unfortunately, we grow out of this childlike wonder as we age.

Whether it’s our environment, the people who influence us, or any other causes, we lose our vision for life as we get older.

When was the last time you dreamed?

When was the last time you had a clear vision for your life or business?

Vision is what motivates us.

It gets us out of bed with enthusiasm and is the fuel that helps us persevere when things aren’t going our way.

Vision propels us forward to become better and smarter.

It stretches us and shapes us into better versions of ourselves.

Beware of settling for less than you’re capable of living because you think your best days are behind you.

Even in old age humans can accomplish great things!

Our dreams may look different the older we get but the impact can still be massive.

Proverbs 29:18 in the Bible states, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.”

Vision is critical for life and progress.

It’s vision that builds nations.

It was vision that led the Wright brothers to figure out flight.

It was vision that led to all the products and services we take for granted.

If you’re feeling stuck, frustrated, lost or confused, it’s most likely because you’ve lost your vision.

It’s been said that if you lose your “why” you’ll lose your way.

Your “why” is your vision. It’s your purpose.

To regain motivation and get back on track to accomplishing great things, block out time to think, pray, and dream.

What do you want to accomplish in the next year, five years, or decade?

What do you feel called to do?

Who do you feel called to serve?

What would excite you to get out of bed every morning and energize you to tackle each day’s challenges?

Once you have answers to these questions, the “how” will come into perspective.

The people and resources will become evident.

But it starts with checking your vision and permitting yourself to dream again regardless of your age or life situation.

Until next time, make today GREAT!

Whenever you’re ready, here are two ways I can help you:

  1. The Way to Greatness book – Discover the five continual choices that lead to The GREAT Life and how to implement them immediately.
  2. The GREAT Life Bootcamp video course – In this self-paced course, I’ll guide you to learn how to experience the life you were created to live by improving your faith, relationships, mindset, stewardship, and time management. (Enter coupon code “MM50” at checkout to receive a subscriber-only 50% discount!)

To Succeed Later, You Must Prepare NOW

We’re easily enamored in our culture with those who rise to the top of their fields and win championships.

But we rarely consider what it took to achieve those great feats.

The reality is that “overnight success” often takes years (sometimes decades) of struggle to get there.

No one likes to hear that when they’re chasing a dream.

Whether we like it or not, we must go through the “valley of becoming” where we’re prepared to accomplish our dreams and goals.

The early mornings and late nights of struggle and isolation prepare us to achieve great results.

The question is this – Are you willing to put in the time and effort long before the results are achieved?

Most people aren’t and as a result settle for mediocre, ordinary living.

Whatever your hopes, dreams, and goals are, commit today to put in the work to become the person able to accomplish them.

Commit to persevering when things aren’t going your way.

View your obstacles as growth opportunities and setbacks as set-ups for success.

When you face your fears and put in the hard work that no one sees right now, you’ll be able to accomplish BIG things later.

But you can’t skip this step in the process.

Today’s reality is a result of your past efforts. Tomorrow’s reality will be determined by what you do today.

In light of this, do you expect great things tomorrow, or do you need to reset your thinking and start putting in the time, energy, and effort to accomplish your goals?

Until next time, make today GREAT!

Whenever you’re ready, here are four ways I can help you:

  1. The Magnetic Leader book– Grab your copy of my playbook to consistently attract and retain high-quality team members, customers, and clients.
  2. Magnetic Leadership video course – Learn the 18 Essential Actions to attract and retain high-quality team members. (Enter coupon code “MM50” at checkout to receive a 50% newsletter subscriber discount!)
  3. Magnetic Leadership Community – Join the community of growth-minded individuals focused on leveling up their leadership capabilities. (This is a monthly membership program that includes group coaching, expert interviews, the Magnetic Leadership video course, and bonus training)
  4. Magnetic Leadership Community for Teams – Enroll your team for an 18-month leadership development program that provides a common leadership language and helps foster a thriving, attractive culture.

3 Non-Negotiable Actions for Leaders Worth Following

Magnetic Leaders are desperately needed today.

Our world is a mess.

Here are 3 essential actions you must take daily:

1 – Remain teachable. You’ll never know everything, so don’t pretend you do. Keep learning and growing.

2 – Serve purposefully. Servant leadership isn’t just a buzzphrase, it’s a way of life. Serve those you lead to help them be successful.

3 – Love people. When you truly care for people, they feel it and respond with loyalty and enthusiasm.

So, remember…

If you want to truly make a difference in your sphere of influence, take these 3 essential actions to heart and implement them today.

Move Forward Even When People Exit Your Journey

“Beware the ides of March” (March 15) was a warning given to Julius Caesar by a fortune-teller.

He didn’t heed the warning and lost his life because of it.

He was betrayed by his closest followers, even a close friend.

Sometimes this happens to leaders and is extremely discouraging.

Everyone won’t complete the entire journey with you. Learn to be okay with that and keep moving forward anyway.

How to Attract Success in 2017

“Confusion repels; clarity attracts.” – Kary Oberbrunner

Do you want to have a successful year? Seems like a silly question, right?

Do you know how to make 2017 more successful than 2016? That might be a more challenging question.

At the beginning of each new year, there seems to be fresh hope and excitement for the year to come. But often that hope and excitement wears off when “more of the same” seems to be happening in your life and business. I want to help you change that this year.

How clear are you about your dreams and goals?

Do you REALLY know what you want in your life and work?

As my mentor, Kary Oberbrunner, often teaches – confusion repels what we want in life while clarity attracts it. The clearer you are about what you want to accomplish, the more strategic you can be to achieve it. Let’s do a little exercise:

Who do you want a better relationship with this year?

What actions can you take to make that happen?

What do you believe the results of these actions will be?

By when will you take these actions?

What are some barriers preventing you from taking these actions?

Who can help you overcome these barriers?

When will you discuss your goals and plans with this person?

While this series of questions is about a particular relationship, you can apply this to getting a better job, earning more income, achieving a goal or planning a vacation. The questions can be adapted. The questions will help you CLARIFY what you want and that clarity will attract the people and resources you need to achieve your dream or goal. You have the do the work, but starting with clarity is essential!

I am on a mission to help people clarify their purposes/dreams and break through barriers so they can reach their potential. I want to help you! Contact me at [email protected] so we can discuss how 1:1 coaching can help you move towards your dreams and goals.