Ten years ago, I was leading in a church as a full-time pastor, but quietly unraveling on the inside. A painful leadership crisis had left me emotionally drained and spiritually disoriented. I was stuck, uncertain where to go next or how to escape without damaging my family or the community I was serving.
I didn’t know it then, but that dark valley was the beginning of a new calling.
The Pivot Point
Everything began to shift with a single question. I was watching a brief video of John Maxwell when he asked: “Where do you want to go in the next 10 years? And what step can you take in the next 30 days to move in that direction?”
That moment sparked a life-altering pivot. I joined the Maxwell Leadership Team and launched my coaching business within weeks. Since then, I’ve published two books, created volumes of leadership content, and worked with remarkable leaders across diverse industries.
It wasn’t easy. I had to be pushed—kicked out of the nest—to see what God truly created me for. The pain of disruption became the soil for growth. I discovered that my ministry background wasn’t a barrier; it was a blessing. My heart for people translated beautifully into coaching, speaking, and training. I also realized that my potential wasn’t limited by formal education, but unlocked by self-education and faith.
A Whisper That Changed Everything
In August 2015, while attending the International Maxwell Conference in Orlando, I had a defining moment. Amid the inspiration and energy, I heard the Lord whisper, “Your family’s story is changing.”
It was disruptive, emotional, and deeply reassuring. I didn’t fully understand it then, and I’m still discovering its meaning year by year. But I trust the process now more than ever.
Looking Ahead with Vision and Faith
The past decade taught me to trust God’s timing, not force outcomes. I’ve learned to grow daily, plant seeds faithfully, and believe that harvests will come—in ways I can’t yet imagine. As I look to the next 10 years, I’m stepping forward with more faith, more confidence, and a clear vision of leading others into what I now call “total life freedom.”
Whether you’re facing disruption, wondering how to pivot, or clinging to a calling you can’t yet explain—take the first step. You never know how a single decade can change your entire legacy.
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